If ever you’ve struggled to find love in your life (and who hasn’t), you know what it feels like when everyone around you seems to be head over heels; if you’ve ever stumbled through darkness, you know what it feels like when everyone around you seems lit up from inside, and if your purpose in life is escaping you, you know what it feels like to look around and see everyone living their best lives.
Some of what you’re seeing is true, and some is indeed ‘fake news’, but one thing is certain, none of us are spared hardship of one kind or another, at one time or another, and focusing on what we have to be grateful for, however challenging, is always a worthwhile pursuit.
So this week, as we look forward to Thanksgiving, and the holiday season beyond, we are reminded of all that is good in our lives, and if you are reading this newsletter, chances are your basket is at least half full.
At Books & Company, we were fortunate enough, last week, to spend time at the World Conference on Lung Health. (Yes, I know, pretty niche, even for a small independent English language bookshop in Denmark:-)
We were there to promote authors and sell their books, and while sales were brisk, and we were lucky to have with us one of those rare stars of the publishing world, John Green of ‘Fault in our Stars’ fame, and a ‘runaway bestseller’ on Tuberculosis, it turned out that the greatest experience lay not in our proximity to fame, but in the meeting with the delegates.
Every single person at the conference had either researched, helped find a cure for, nursed, cured, protected, defended, fundraised, fought, raised awareness for, or themselves overcome, severe illness. Illnesses, in particular Tuberculosis, for which there has been a cure for decades, but from which millions of people continue to perish.
It was truly awe-inspiring to be surrounded by human beings who dedicate their lives, often for very low pay, and sometimes at very high risk, to the wellbeing of others. They all, in each their way, care for those among us that most of us rarely even think about. The poor, the sick, the disenfranchised, the voiceless, the powerless, and the stigmatized.
It is easy, in the face of such dedication, to feel inadequate, but the more acute sense last week, thanks to an impressive generosity of spirit, was one of deep gratitude. To quote John Green: “I’ve had a very privileged life because of a birth lottery, and I try to be conscious about it”.
So this year, along with an immense gratitude for the wonderful community of book lovers that I am so very fortunate to be a part of, I am grateful for the many people around the world who do the good, the immeasurable, and the immeasurably good work of caring for those who cannot care for themselves.
In an ideal world, gratitude goes hand in hand with aspiration, so I will end my ‘Thanksgiving letter’ with a quote from the late, great, Mahatma Ghandi, shared by Vidya Krishnan, another author at the conference:
“Whenever you are in doubt…..recall the face of the poorest and the most helpless man whom you may have seen and ask yourself if the step you contemplate is going to be of any use to him….Then you will find your doubts melting away.”
Ghandi’s virtuous words may seem unachievable, but they can help us be conscious of the birth lottery that has given us the life we are privileged to lead.
Happy Thanksgiving!